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    'Loving Story' shows unlikely civil rights heroes

    Richard Loving looks out from the Jim Crow past with wary eyes, appearing on the screen with a blond crew cut, plaid work shirt, bad teeth and Southern accent.

    "He looked like a redneck," said Philip Hirschkop, a lawyer who soon recognized his mistake — Loving was actually a pioneer for racial equality.

    The white bricklayer from Virginia defied stereotypes and centuries of racist laws when he married Mildred Jeter, who was black and Native American. Convicted of violating a law against interracial marriage, the Lovings fought for their rights and won a landmark 1967 Supreme Court case that struck down such bans nationwide.

    Their lives are explored in a new documentary, "The Loving Story," which premieres Tuesday on HBO.

    Today, there are more than 4 million "mixed marriages" in the United States, and roughly one in seven new marriages are between people of different ethnicities. But in 1958, when the Lovings' marriage was ruled illegal and they were banished from their native Virginia, 21 states outlawed interracial unions.

    "The Loving Story" details the couple's nine-year battle to live in Virginia as man and wife. Using evocative photographs, newly unearthed footage and interviews with the Lovings' daughter and lawyers, the film reveals the power of love to overcome bigotry.

    "I came to respect Mildred and Richard so much," said the film's director and producer, Nancy Buirski. "I think these people had such high standards and strong principles and in many ways they defied stereotypes."

    "You don't have to be an activist to change history," Buirski said. "You just have to believe strongly in something."

    Richard and Mildred grew up near each other in rural Virginia. They courted for a few years before getting married in Washington, D.C., on June 2, 1958, then returned home to live near their families.

    On July 14, the sheriff broke into the Lovings' bedroom in the middle of the night and took them to jail. Judge Leon Bazile sentenced the Lovings to five years in prison, but suspended the sentence as long as they left the state. And Bazile made a statement that demonstrates the immense distance society has traveled since 1958, a statement that is narrated at the start of the film:

    "Almighty God created the races: white, black, yellow, Malay and red, and he placed them on separate continents, and but for the interference with His arrangement there would be no cause for such marriages," Bazile said in court. "The fact that He separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mate."

    But "The Loving Story" makes clear that Mildred and Richard Loving were meant for each other.

    Numerous still photographs, taken for Life magazine by Grey Villet, capture the intimate glances and gestures shared by soul mates. Archival film depicts mundane moments of daily life — a sock smoothed over a foot; a log tossed into the stove — that become pregnant with meaning when a family is under attack.

    Mildred, who died in 2008, does most of the talking, her gentle voice describing the ordeal she endured with her husband and three children. Richard, who was killed by a drunken driver in 1975, says little beyond, "I'm not gon' divorce her."

    The Lovings moved to Washington to be together, but Mildred was not suited for city life. A friend told her to write to the U.S. attorney general, Robert F. Kennedy, who advised her to contact the American Civil Liberties Union.

    Hirschkop and Bernard Cohen were the ACLU lawyers who took the case to the Supreme Court. Their opponents argued that interracial marriages — and the children they produced — were much more likely to have difficulties. They compared Virginia's law banning such marriages to those prohibiting polygamy or incest.

    In 1967, the Supreme Court ruled 9-0 in the Lovings' favor.

    Buirski noted that even though most Americans now say they have no problems with interracial marriage, pockets of resistance have remained.

    Laws prohibiting interracial marriage stayed on the books in South Carolina and Alabama until 1998 and 2000, respectively. In 2009, a Louisiana justice of the peace refused to marry a black man and a white woman. "I'm not a racist," said the official, Keith Bardwell. "I just don't believe in mixing the races that way."

    In a 2011 Gallup poll, 84 percent of whites and 96 percent of blacks said they approved of interracial marriage.

    "It's not something we can take for granted," Buirski said.

    "Racial identity is an important conversation to have in our culture, and I think the more we bring it to the forefront of our conversation, the better it is for everybody. That's one reason I don't see this story as history. I see this as living history."

    A history written by two people who knew their love was true, and who may have glimpsed a better future.

    "It's not so much me and Richard — we could go away," Mildred says in the film. "It's the principle. It's the law. I don't think it's right. If we do win, we'll be helping a lot of people."

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    Jesse Washington covers race and ethnicity for The Associated Press. He is reachable at http://www.twitter.com/jessewashington or jwashington(at)ap.org.

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    34 comments

    • Andrew K  •  Beverly, Massachusetts  •  3 months ago
      Beautiful story of love overcoming the roadblocks of life, as well as one of the most monumental court cases of the 20th century in America.
    • janetg  •  Los Angeles, California  •  3 months ago
      Love, doesn't see color.
    • LieDetector  •  3 months ago
      United we stand, divided we fall huh?
      That is true, but as you mature you will come to realize that is a call for the human race to stand together.
      Do you know how many Whites lost their lives standing with blacks in the civil rights movement? Check it out. Dont think the movment would have been possible without our friends......
      • Dreamalee 3 months ago
        Yes I do know,and we all stood united back then..people knew how to be true friends to one another..we also knew real Historical facts..which is a far cry from what the brain wash children into believing today
    • Rickie  •  3 months ago
      Beautiful brave people.
    • Big Leo  •  Gila Bend, Arizona  •  3 months ago
      21 states still had the law on the books, but only seven had ever enforced it for several decades. I am particularly aware of it because we had two interracial marriages in our family during the forties and fifties. The great majority of Americans had this right either de jure or de facto before the Loving trial, but the decision very decisively cleared away the last barriers to interracial marriages. Too bad it had to wait so long.
    • James  •  Carbondale, Illinois  •  3 months ago
      It is a beautiful story, though I guess some people still look at the Loving v. Virginia decision as an example of "activist" judges. When it comes to basic civil rights, we all owe a debt of gratitude to such "activist" judges.
      • Overthehill 3 months ago
        Unfortunately we have some activist judges on the Supreme Court right now. They call themselves conservatives. The judges that ruled on basic civil rights for all were just moral human beings and believed in justice for all men.
      • Neil 3 months ago
        "Activist judges" is just a term conservatives have used since Brown v. Board for judges who make a ruling they don't like.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  Seattle, Washington  •  3 months ago
      It is the Person you are inside that matters ,
      Not the shell (as I call it ) that houses your Soul
    • Mary Farris  •  3 months ago
      For you folks who are unaware, those "Anti-miscegenation" laws down south didn't just prohibit marriage of blacks and whites. My uncle married a Cherokee - and while he was in the military (he served over 20 years - starting in the early 40s), he and his family couldn't be stationed there because of those laws. They were married for over 50 years before my aunt's death - and my uncle was "adopted into the tribe" in Oklahoma.
      • kp 3 months ago
        My family hid mixed Choctaw blood for 140 years because of the laws
    • omnia mutantur nihil inte ...  •  3 months ago
      I love how people think things are in the bible that are not actually there. No, I dont love it. I love it when I hand them my bible and say 'really? Show me the passage'.
      • Katherine 3 months ago
        Yes, because your feelings of superiority and selfrighteousness, is so much more christen.
      • daylily61 3 months ago
        What's your problem, Katherine? Omina Interit is absolutely right that many people think some things are in the Bible which aren't, and vice versa. Besides, she didn't say she herself was a Christian. So when people say to her "It's in the Bible," what's wrong with her saying "Show me where"?
      • Big Leo 3 months ago
        If they can't show you, it don't count.
    • Dreamalee  •  Reno, Nevada  •  3 months ago
      My Parents were such a couple,My Mother fell under the drop of Blood laws..we lived in Black Communities most of my younger years..My Father didn't marry my Mother until 1958,because they couldn't legally live together but they did..it was kept secret and with the help of His Parents both white they helped my Mother-and father and us to grow up until these laws were overturned..I am so grateful for the "Loving Story" and I claim it as a part of my own family story as well..we were treated as Pirrha's by both Communities..especially my Mother..she was a passer and it was said very cruelly..I attended Black Churches as a child and they just didn't know how to handle my Lilly white face in the pews..Sunday School was a torment..with my little penny wrapped up in my hankie..I was so confused over who and what community I belonged in for so long..My Mothers Mother was also Indian ..History is History afterall..I feel so Blessed today Thank you Lovings~For all of us who knew your torment..and grew up very well..thank you,you'll never know how many times we had to move in the dead of night..Love is always the Answer..always
    • vi  •  3 months ago
      Its a beautiful story - with so much struggle- even today the ’ marriage of minds’ [Shakespeare] rather than body [genes] is not accepted in pedigree circles .I thank the Loving’s for helping us get a law to marry interracial couples.We have all benefited with their struggle to get the law approve their marriage.
    • BLF  •  3 months ago
      What distinguishes the United States from all other countries is our constitution, and the ability of the high court to eventually protect the individual from mob rule. The sad thing is that it seems to take forever for justice to happen in the face of so many ignorant state majorities.
    • Yolie  •  Plano, Texas  •  3 months ago
      this is a beautiful story ♥
    • Eden  •  Dallas, Texas  •  3 months ago
      That's the kind of love story I'm interested in, what an inspiration.
    • SeeJaneBrowse  •  Austin, Texas  •  3 months ago
      Personally, I think the beauty of so many children of mixed race descent is proof that we ARE all meant to be one family. We are meant to love each other, regardless of color.
    • bob  •  3 months ago
      It's been 150 years, how long does it take for these racist idiots to grow up?
      If you see a black & white together you wont turn to stone, your brain wont melt.
      Give the world some slack, i'm sure it gives you plenty.
      • Dreamalee 3 months ago
        There are all colors who are racists sir..all colors could be told that
    • Anne  •  Newark, New Jersey  •  3 months ago
      In 2009, a Louisiana justice of the peace refused to marry a black man and a white woman. "I'm not a racist," said the official, Keith Bardwell. "I just don't believe in mixing the races that way."
      Ummm...so he is racist, just in the closet racist?
      Last time I checked we all look the same no matter what skin color, nationality, religion, etc. I read one comment on here towards the bottom about blacks should stick with blacks and whites with whites. I think that's sad - it's 2012. I'm sorry to tell him but I'm sure Martin Luther King would not be proud of that comment.
    • Ollek  •  3 months ago
      I wish I could have met this couple. How inspiring!
    • BobAboui  •  3 months ago
      One of the great landmark decisions in US history. Many religionists and (anti) social conservatives (aka bigots) still hate this decisions to this day.
    • sarah penguin  •  3 months ago
      one of the best stories ever

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