Peter Lawford

About Peter Lawford

Benefitting greatly from the dearth of handsome male talent in Hollywood during World War II, Lawford gained notice for appearances in such films as "The Picture of Dorian Gray" (1945) and "Son of Lassie" (1945). More roles followed throughout the 1950s, although it was his marriage to Patricia Kennedy - sister of John and Robert Kennedy - as well as his association with Frank Sinatra's iconic cadre of carousers that brought Lawford lasting fame. Years after JFK's assassination, rumors about Lawford's scandalous adventures with the president, his being the last person to speak to a despondent Marilyn Monroe before her tragic death, and a bitter falling out with Sinatra, became the stuff of legend. Less glamorous was Lawford's decline in the film industry, several failed marriages, and chronic alcoholism. With the halcyon years of "Ocean's Eleven" (1960) far behind him, the aging actor made due with the occasional film role and guest turns on such TV fare as "The Doris Day Show" (CBS, 1968-1973) and "Fantasy Island" (ABC, 1977-1984). A bit player in a fascinating chapter of American pop-culture, Lawford would most likely be remembered less for his acting credentials than for the legacy encapsulated in author James Spada's unofficial biography, Peter Lawford: The Man Who Kept the Secrets.

Born Peter Sidney Ernest Aylen on Sept. 7, 1923 in London, England, he was the only child of May Aylen and Lieutenant-General Sir Sydney Turing Barlow Lawford. Peter's life was one filled with scandal from the very beginning, as both his mother and father were married to other people at the time of his conception. Lawford's birth name came from Captain Ernest Aylen, May's husband at the time, who was also a subordinate officer to General Lawford. The divulgence of the affair resulted in a pair of divorces and the wedding of May to Lawford took place a year after he was born, at which time Peter was given the surname of his biological father. Largely a result of his father's military career and due in part to his parents' wish to escape the gossip of London, Peter was raised abroad, primarily in France. Never formally educated, he was tutored by various caregivers and by his mother, who tended to focus his studies on the arts. The seven-year-old Lawford made his film debut with a small role in the English comedy "Poor Old Bill" (1931), after a visit to the film's set led to the boy being cast in the picture. A life-altering accident occurred when, at age 14, Peter ran into a glass door and severely lacerated his right arm. The resulting nerve damage would nearly cripple the arm for life, in addition to preventing Lawford from being eligible for military service as an adult.

Having traveled to California with his mother, Lawford picked up a small role in his first U.S. motion picture, "Lord Jeff" (1938), and began pursuing an acting career in earnest. With America's entry into World War II in 1941, many of Hollywood's leading men had enlisted for service. Lawford's once debilitating injury then became a boon, when studios execs put out the word to recruit handsome male talent for the suddenly shrunken pool of actors. Signed to a contract with MGM Studios, the young actor quickly made small appearances in a slew of films, including "Mrs. Miniver" (1942) and "A Yank at Eton" (1942), usually cast as either a dashing military officer or an effete snob. A more notable role came as a concerned young gentleman out to uncover the sinister secret of "The Picture of Dorian Gray" (1945), followed by his first leading role in "Son of Lassie" (1945), opposite June Lockhart. Although groomed for stardom by MGM throughout the 1940s, none of Lawford's performances - perfectly adequate as they were - in films like "Good News" (1947), "Easter Parade" (1948), "Little Women" (1949), and "Royal Wedding" (1951) succeeded in cementing his reputation as a major box office draw or particularly memorable leading man.

As the studio system began its slow decline throughout the 1950s, so too did Lawford's film career. After MGM opted not to renew his contract, he made his first picture away from the studio opposite Judy Holiday in the musical-comedy "It Should Happen to You" (1954), a Columbia Pictures release directed by George Cukor and featuring a young Jack Lemmon in one of his earliest screen roles. Looking to the still-young medium of television, Lawford rolled the dice as the star of two series. First, as an advice-to-the-lovelorn columnist on the short-lived sitcom "Dear Phoebe" (NBC, 1954-55), then as Dashiell Hammett's sophisticated sleuth Nick Charles on "The Thin Man" (NBC, 1957-59). Known as one of Tinseltown's more active playboys during his early years, having dated Lana Turner and other MGM lovelies, Lawford, for all outwardly intensive purposes, gave up bachelorhood when he married Patricia Kennedy in 1954. Of English aristocracy himself, Lawford had married into one of America's royal families with the highly-publicized union. Being a part of the Kennedy family opened many doors for Lawford, in addition to attracting the attention of those intent on gaining access to the halls of power themselves. People like Frank Sinatra, who suddenly revived his friendship with Lawford after effectively putting and end to it years earlier in a fit of jealousy concerning his ex-wife, Ava Gardner.

Back in Sinatra's good graces, Lawford became a part of that legendary clique known as "The Rat Pack," performing on the stages of Las Vegas with pals Sinatra, Dean Martin and Sammy Davis, Jr. A string of Sinatra movies, like the light-hearted romps "Ocean's Eleven" (1960) and "Sergeants Three" (1962) followed. It was a heady time for Lawford, who was dubbed the "Brother-in-Lawford" by Sinatra after John F. Kennedy was elected U.S. President. Years later, speculation and rumors about Lawford arranging trysts for Kennedy - among the most infamous being Marilyn Monroe - ran rampant, although he had deftly maneuvered to keep the scandalous activities away from the press and his intimidating father-in-law at the time, Joseph Kennedy. Inevitably, the house of cards Lawford had built around himself was bound to fall apart. After fathering four children with Patricia, losing brother-in-law JFK to an assassin's bullet, and once again being ex-communicated by Sinatra over a perceived slight, Lawford at last admitted his numerous affairs to his wife. They were divorced in 1966. The actor married for a second and third time - each marriage briefer than the last - before beginning a nine-year relationship with the much younger Patricia Eaton, who Lawford would eventually wed in 1984.

As the 1960s drew to a close, Lawford - who no longer enjoyed the benefits of the studio system, the Rat Pack, or the Kennedy family - found both his professional and personal life floundering. Picking up acting work wherever he could find it, he once again appeared on screen with Jack Lemmon, albeit this time with Lemmon as the star and Lawford in a supporting role for the romantic-comedy "The April Fools" (1969). Always a heavy drinker, the actor's increased alcohol consumption over the years and a growing dependency on drugs were making it more difficult for him to find work. Other than the odd TV game show appearance or series guest spot, Lawford managed to land the occasional role in film projects like the little-seen thriller "Rosebud" (1975) and the boxing melodrama "Body and Soul" (1981). A faded celebrity, more famous for being famous rather than for any notable screen performance, his final film appearance was in the comedy "Where is Parsifal?" (1983) a British-French co-production featuring Tony Curtis and Orson Welles. Having paid no heed to doctors' repeated warnings that he needed to stop drinking, Lawford died from a heart attack brought on by kidney failure and cirrhosis of the liver on Dec. 24, 1984, mere months after marrying longtime girlfriend Patricia Eaton. Actor Peter Lawford was 61 years old.

By Bryce Coleman

Partners

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Geri Crane. together 1968-70; 23 years Lawford's junior

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Lana Turner. had eight month relationship in 1944

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June Allyson. met while filming "Two Sisters From Boston (1946)

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Ava Gardner. dated in 1946

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Jean MacDonald. society reporter for "Honolulu Star Bulletin"; met while Lawford on route to film "Kangaroo" in Australia (1951); engaged 1952

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Judy Holliday. met while filming "It Should Happen to You" (1953)

Wife

Deborah Gould. Married June 25, 1976; she was 27 years Lawford's junior; divorced 1977

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Sharman Douglas. dated 1949; engaged 1950; he broke off engagement after four days; daughter of American ambassador to the court of St. James in London

Wife

Mary Rowan. Daughter of comedian Dan Rowan; met during 1971 taping of "Laugh In" on which Lawford was a guest; married Oct. 30, 1971; divorced Jan. 2, 1975;

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Patricia Seaton. Together from 1976 when Seaton was 17; married July 1984 in hospital where Lawford was operated on for bleeding ulcer, until his death Dec. 24, 1984; she co-authored The Peter Lawford Story (1984)

Wife

Patricia Kennedy. John F. Kennedy's sister; worked as production assistant on Kate Smith's radio program (1949) and Father Peyton's "Family Rosary Crusade"; married April 24, 1954; divorced Feb. 1, 1966

Career Milestones

Appeared in a continuing role on "The Doris Day Show"

1960

Formed Chrislaw production company with Milton Ebbins which produced "The Patty Duke Show" and the film, "Johnny Cool" (both 1963) (date approximate)

1960

Became an American citizen in order to vote in 1960 election for brother-in-law John F. Kennedy

1960

Joined Frank Sinatra's "Rat Pack"

1957

Starred in TV series, "The Thin Man"

1956

Bought Louis B. Mayer's former Santa Monica beach front estate for $95,000

1954

Reportedly introduced John F. Kennedy and Marilyn Monroe to each other

1954

Starred in and produced first TV series, "Dear Phoebe"

1952

MGM contract not renewed

1951

First learned of scandal concerning his parents' divorce scandal and his own paternity

1943

Signed to MGM contract (for one year with second year option at $100 per week with 40 weeks guaranteed)

Appeared briefly in 22 films from 1942-43

1942

First major role in "A Yank at Eton"

1942

Played a pilot in "Mrs. Miniver"

1942

Returned to Hollywood; disqualified from military service because of teenage injury to right arm; worked as usher in a Westwood, CA movie theater

1939

Worked as gas station attendant, then parked cars and became manager of the parking lot in West Palm Beach, FL

1938

US film debut (bit part), "Lord Jeff" at age 14

Had travelled three times around the world by age 15

1937

Moved to Hollywood

1932

Returned to France where he appeared in several films

1931

Film debut in "Poor Old Bill" (as a result of mother's political association with Sir Thomas Paulson who owned major interest in Elstree Studios)

1930

Family returned to London because of worldwide Depression

1924

Moved with parents to Deauville at age one to avoid scandal of their divorces